Tisha B'Av

The Two Sides of Tisha B’av

Adapted from an essay by Rabbi Yisroel Rubin Albany, NY

Tisha B’av is the darkest day on the Jewish calendar observed this year on Saturday night, August 6, and Sunday, August 7.

Tisha B’av commemorates the destruction of Jerusalem’s Holy Temple and almost 2 millennia of Jewish struggle in exile.  On the negative side, Tisha B’av also saw forty years of death and wandering in the desert, the fall of Betar the Spanish expulsion in 1492, and the start of World War 1.

Today, the saddest thing about Tisha B’av is that many people do not know about it or care to observe it.  We don’t know what we are missing.  Unfortunately, we are split and divided, suffering from the senseless hatred that caused the tragedy of Tisha B’av.

Tisha B’av climaxes three weeks of mourning, beginning with the fast of the 17th of Tammuz.  During the nine days preceding Tisha B’av, we abstain from eating meat, drinking wine (except for a Mitzvah dinner), nor take a full bath. We fast on Tisha B’av, do not wash, wear leather shoes, or have marital relations.  The book of Lamentations is read sitting on a low stool in mourning.

But there is another side to Tisha B’av:

The Talmud tells the story of Rabbi Akiva and the Sages tearing their garments in mourning upon seeing Jerusalem in ruins. Their anguish increased upon seeing a fox strolling where the Holy Ark once stood.  The Sages burst into tears, but Rabbi Akiva laughed.  The sages were shocked, “How can you laugh when animals desecrate our Holy of Holies? Said Rabbi Akiva, “The Torah connects the fall and rise of Jerusalem.  Zechariah the prophet foresaw “elderly men and women relaxing in the streets of Jerusalem with small children happily playing nearby’, Now that the negative has actually come to pass, the good prophecies will truly be fulfilled.

The sages conceded saying: “Akiva, you have comforted us!”

Tisha B’av expresses strength rather than weakness.  Other nations celebrate only their red-letter days and triumphs, yet we have the strength to dedicate a day to our tragedy, and that is the secret of our long survival that enables Israel to outlive the greatest empires that have long since vanished. Tisha B’av directs us to positive, constructive action of rebuilding through Torah and charity.

It is customary to rise Tisha B’av afternoon and clean the house, showing our renewed faith and hope.  On the positive side, Tisha B’av marks the birth and potential of redemption by the righteous Moshiach, a most important Jewish principle. “I fully believe in the coming of Moshiach and though he may take time, each day I eagerly anticipate his coming!” (Maimonides) Last but not least. we conclude the Lamentations on a high positive note as we loudly declare: “Return to us oh G-d. and we will return You, renew our days as once before!”

Join us this Saturday night for the recital of Lamentations at Boulder Center for Judaism, Saturday evening Aug. 6, 9:15 pm. For more information call (303)494-1638.



About Chany Scheiner

Co - Director of Boulder Center for Judaism. Any successful organization needs a heart and that is what Chany provides, along with organization, marketing, innovative programming, and countless Shabbat dinners. Some of her accomplishments are large and public like the annual menorah lighting on Pearl Street and the matzo and shofar factories, while others are quiet and private like the time she spends counseling individuals and sharing the wisdom that comes from study.

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