Bruce DeBoskey of the DeBoskey Group

How to Thrive in the “Giving Season”

Bruce DeBoskey of the DeBoskey Group
Bruce DeBoskey of the DeBoskey Group

This is the “giving season” – the time of year when many individuals and businesses focus on philanthropy and make their largest contributions to charity. Whether you’ll be donating $25 or $250,000, there are ways to make your giving more effective in this meaningful and generous time of year.

First, consider these facts:

  • In the United States, $602 billion will be spent during the season that begins with Thanksgiving and extends through Christmas, Hanukkah and Kwanzaa.
  • In 2012, U.S. charitable giving totaled $316 billion. Seventy-two percent of this amount came from individuals, 15 percent from foundations, 7 percent from bequests and 6 percent from corporations.
  • Nearly 30 percent of all annual giving happens in December, including 10 percent in the last two days of the year.
  • Twenty-two percent of online giving happens on Dec. 30 and 31.

For various reasons, many people make their donation decisions as the year comes to a close. Whether you give throughout the year or wait until the end of the year, here are some guidelines for effective philanthropy:

Examine your reasons for giving. Determine which causes inspire your passion and which results you’d like to achieve with your giving. Often, people give to charities based on habit or family tradition, or because an acquaintance or friend supports the cause. When deciding where to donate, make sure that the nonprofit engages in work that is most important to you.

Involve your family. Talk with other family members, across the generations, to learn what matters to each and which values you share. Consider setting aside a portion of the money used to buy holiday gifts for one another and contributing it to a common cause that reflects your shared values. Put favorite charities on your gift list, and ask others for theirs.

Research nonprofits. Make sure any nonprofit selected to receive your money is approved by the IRS as a 501(c)(3). Look at financial reports on the organization’s website. Review IRS Form 990 filings, available online. See how the charity rates at sites such as,, and

Ask “so what?” Most nonprofits boast admirable mission statements that include important, unassailable goals. But do their funded activities achieve these goals and make a difference? What outcomes has the charity achieved, and where has it fallen short?

Don’t donate over the phone or at the front door. In Colorado, paid solicitors collected more than $187 million in donations in 2007. Of this total, less than half reached the intended charitable organizations. Paid telephone and door-to-door solicitors operate in every state. Some are legitimate, but it is difficult to be sure. If a charity is soliciting you over the phone or by ringing your doorbell, let it ring. Also, be wary of sound-alike names masking fraudulent solicitations. Check some of these out at specials/

Go deep, not wide. No matter how much you give, it is better to give boldly to a few nonprofits than to give smaller amounts to a large number of nonprofits. Pay attention to legitimate matching- gift opportunities, and consider making a two- or three-year pledge.

Contribute your time and talent. Volunteering with a nonprofit is one of the best ways to really familiarize yourself with an organization’s work. Volunteering makes it possible for all people to meaningfully contribute, regardless of income level. For local opportunities, see or

Start early in 2014. Think of your philanthropy as another type of investment – one that seeks a social rather than a financial return. Research, develop a strategy, diversify, contribute and evaluate. For significant gifts, seek advice from experts, and thoughtfully consider your donation options.

Following these steps will help you achieve better outcomes for the causes or organizations you care most about. In addition, reflecting the spirit of the season, it will help you find more joy, meaning and satisfaction in your philanthropy.

This post originally appeared in the Denver Post, December 8, 2013.  Reposted here with permission by the author.  Bruce’s article called  “Nine Tips for Effective Philanthropy” was published in the December edition of The Costco Connection, and delivered to 8.5 million homes across the country.

About Bruce DeBoskey

Bruce DeBoskey, J.D., is a Colorado-based philanthropic strategist working across the U.S. with The DeBoskey Group to help families, businesses and foundations design and implement thoughtful philanthropic strategies and actionable plans. He is a frequent keynote speaker at conferences and workshops on philanthropy. More information at or @BDeBo.

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